[quote=Curvaceous Flirt;38239Thanks to this little fact here when you go to a
BBW dance(doesn't matter the location) is the reason I stay out of the
BBW community. It's impossible to find a guy on a dating site, at a dance, or anywhere else that the fat community congregates where he hasn't hooked up with or dated any number of the girls. Also the women are super aggressive and men don't want to act like men anymore. They don't want to be the pursuers which is actually in their nature. Women are over aggressive, guys get what they want all up front with no effort on their parts at all, and lose interest about as fast as they would watching a romantic comedy.[/QUOTE]
although this is a little off topic... i agree WHOLEHEARTEDLY!!!!!!!! this has been my observation and experience over the last 3+ yrs of being in the
bbw community. but its better than not having a community, it has just changed how i interact within the
bbw world. this has been the biggest wakeup call! i started with the feeling "oh my, alll these men LOVE bbws and i feel so at home/safe/free..." to(when things are at their worst) "this is just a super-sized version of the thin world's crappy dating scene only its worse cuz there arent any other options for bbws"
and i think the original post was lovely...