This is funny cuz last Thursday nite is the first time I learned what a cougar was. I happen to attract young men for some reason and not because I try or go after them. Basically, there is a time and place for everything and I was told there is a specific place in NYC that ctaers to cougars and young men...no, I will not be going but it just amazed me...but, to each his own. I think people should just worry about what they are doing and not so much into other people's biz. Basically, one cannot be preyed upon unless they let it happen. Again, we are all humans, can't we just stop labelling as BBW, BHM. etc etc?