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Old March 24th, 2011, 11:26 AM   #61
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Hmmm, am I being ordered? LMAO Oh wait, maybe you are scared?

yeah thats it
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Old March 24th, 2011, 11:29 AM   #62
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Old March 24th, 2011, 08:57 PM   #63
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I am not sure why body confidence is a requirement to be on this website.

There are many days when I am sure the fu*k not proud of 250lbs-/+ aging body. I am not sure confidence is perceived by posting a full on body photo? I have several and I also go to nude beaches... go figure. I see a lot of people that floss that don't feel like they are worth a sh!t... fat or thin.

Self esteem requires maintenance and it sure the hell shouldn't be interpreted through a photo... nude or in a burka. I look at mens photos and they don't smile... am I to assume they are ashamed of their teeth or lack there of... or are they playin' tough for their male counterparts (another sign of insecurity)? I do know I wouldn't try to make them feel like crap about it.

Its ok to be deemed insecure at least it is sincere/honest and not a load of glossed up horse poop. Be careful you don't miss a really great person while your thumbing your nose at above shoulder shots.... you might miss an angel that may just needed some encouragement. Remember cocky never equals confident.
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Old March 24th, 2011, 09:26 PM   #64
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[quote=dreamscomingtru;67970]I am not sure why body confidence is a requirement to be on this website.

uhhh yeah again no one said anything about it being a requirement...thank for the long talk about self esteem .....however I just simply ask for women to stop hiding in their photos and be CONFIDENT!
if people just stuck to the original post it would not have gotten this far out of hand.. ..
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I am not sure why body confidence is a requirement to be on this website.

uhhh yeah again no one said anything about it being a requirement...thank for the long talk about self esteem .....however I just simply ask for women to stop hiding in their photos and be CONFIDENT!
if people just stuck to the original post it would not have gotten this far out of hand.. ..
I am commenting on your original post... re-read your own post....you could have just said "I like full body photos to see the full beautiful women can I see more of you?"(period) and not concluded the lack of confidence from shoulder shots. Assumptions equal feedback ...as do provocative posts. Putting "confident" in all caps assumes your commanding something or do you think I can't hear you?

I read the whole string your kinda beenin an jerk about it. Goodluck loverboy.
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I keep reading on this thread about "getting out of hand", what has gotten out of hand???????????????

If a person speaks their mind, good, bad or indifferent does that constitute "getting out of hand"? Tell me the definition of "getting out of hand" someone? WE are all adults and should be able to respond to anything on here without it being labled "out of hand". Just because of disparity, does not necessitate it being out of hand.

We build character when we disagree more than when we agree. So why can't we disagree? Confidence, in my book, again, has very little to do with "how much skin we show", ooooooooo!!! If I stood here nude it wouldn't tell you if I have or lacked confidence but it would tell you what I look like, nothing more, nothing less.

So I say be happy with whatever anyone chooses to post, facial, full body, or nothing at all and GET TO KNOW THE PERSON, not just their shell!

I see nothing wrong with anything anyone has posted here, not even with those who are complaining of our right to voice it........
The out of hand part is that it went "LEFT" Never a problem for me when a person speaks their mind as long ast it is on topic...not saying all responses were out there, but this just went way over the top IMO
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I am guilty of hiding

You can't see my knees or feet in any of my pics
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I keep reading on this thread about "getting out of hand", what has gotten out of hand???????????????

If a person speaks their mind, good, bad or indifferent does that constitute "getting out of hand"? Tell me the definition of "getting out of hand" someone? WE are all adults and should be able to respond to anything on here without it being labled "out of hand". Just because of disparity, does not necessitate it being out of hand.

We build character when we disagree more than when we agree. So why can't we disagree? Confidence, in my book, again, has very little to do with "how much skin we show", ooooooooo!!! If I stood here nude it wouldn't tell you if I have or lacked confidence but it would tell you what I look like, nothing more, nothing less.

So I say be happy with whatever anyone chooses to post, facial, full body, or nothing at all and GET TO KNOW THE PERSON, not just their shell!

I see nothing wrong with anything anyone has posted here, not even with those who are complaining of our right to voice it........

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I am commenting on your original post... re-read your own post....you could have just said "I like full body photos to see the full beautiful women can I see more of you?"(period) and not concluded the lack of confidence from shoulder shots. Assumptions equal feedback ...as do provocative posts. Putting "confident" in all caps assumes your commanding something or do you think I can't hear you?

I read the whole string your kinda beenin an jerk about it. Goodluck loverboy.
Can't Understand Normal Thinking ....Lmao... you should check "your" spelling ....I'm beginning to see why the reading comprehension is an issue
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Can't Understand Normal Thinking ....Lmao... you should check "your" spelling ....I'm beginning to see why the reading comprehension is an issue


and not to mention, the GRAMMAR!!!
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