Why relationships and sex are better with big girls

rwookiee · February 5th, 2010, 02:03 PM

So, I was chatting with friends last weekend about this site and they were asking me about why I like bigger girls. Well, here is my breakdown and I'd like others to comment.

I don't like big girls because of a fetish. I like big girls because they're soft in all the right places. BBWs are larger in all the right places and they're better lovers because they are rough when they want to be rough and they're also tender and soft when you want to be romantic. I love being able to hug someone with substance and to not feel like I'm going to break her when I really need a good squeeze. I love being able to put my arms around her waste and have it feel soft and warm. Its unfortunate to say this, but bbws are always better in relationships because most have had their hearts broken by shallow people and thus they're careful with your feelings and they're always generous with their hearts. BBWs are always nice to lean back against because they're soft and they snuggle well for the same reason. Also, it feels good to be naked with a bbw because they have a lot more soft skin to touch.

Anyway, I could go on and on.

laurie479 · February 5th, 2010, 05:07 PM

Originally Posted by rwookiee

Its unfortunate to say this, but bbws are always better in relationships because most have had their hearts broken by shallow people and thus they're careful with your feelings and they're always generous with their hearts

I like your post but find this section a bit disturbing. I think its definitly overgeneralizing and really just sounds like "they're lucky you like them, so they won't cause you any trouble". I don't know if that's how you intended it, but that's how it comes off. I have actually never had my heart broken by someone bc of my size...I could just be in "a mood" and overreacting

My bad if I am, but I just hate that mantra.

sweetpinkpearl · February 5th, 2010, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by laurie479

I like your post but find this section a bit disturbing. I think its definitly overgeneralizing and really just sounds like "they're lucky you like them, so they won't cause you any trouble". I don't know if that's how you intended it, but that's how it comes off. I have actually never had my heart broken by someone bc of my size...I could just be in "a mood" and overreacting My bad if I am, but I just hate that mantra.

Laurie it kinda sounded that way to me too, but I do believe he was extolling all the great qualities of a bbw. If I ever get the feeling someone feels sorry for me cuz of my size, I have to turn my back...I am a strong, confident, independent woman and am very happy with who I am. Don't ever feel like you are doing me a favor by speaking to me or showing me attention...anyway, I rant LOL All in all, I don't think that was his intentions LOL

rwookiee · February 5th, 2010, 07:30 PM

I completely did not mean it to come off that way. I've had a few friends (bigger girls) who have had some pretty crappy luck. I apologize for the over-generalization. :-( I have nothing but compliments.

markN · February 5th, 2010, 08:04 PM

Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap!

I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze!

sweetpinkpearl · February 5th, 2010, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by markN

Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap!

I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze!

Not over analyzing LOL If you read my last sentence I did say I didn't think those were his intentions...just reading it quick, you start to say WTF...but taking it as a whole, I do believe he was sincere.

laurie479 · February 5th, 2010, 09:51 PM

Originally Posted by markN

Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap!

I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze!

Oh my Mark!! I think the post was great and I do believe I said I don't think it was his intention

He seems like a sweetheart to me!!

rick ross · February 5th, 2010, 10:22 PM

Really interesting article on relationships on campus now that there are more women going to college than men. I agree with most of it except the victim part. Sometimes it is nice to kick back and not have to do anything. Notice I said sometimes.
On College Campuses, a Shortage of Men - NYTimes.com

peppa_labaja · February 6th, 2010, 02:48 AM

No offense taken. I think your post is just lovely and holds a lot of truth. Being plus size we have all experienced some level of negativity. It does not have to be from a man, it could be anyone. I think that does make you more sensitive to a degree. Our life experiences softens us towards others and that's a good thing! I wish I could find someone who felt this way about me...

Curvaceous Flirt · February 6th, 2010, 08:17 AM

Originally Posted by rick ross

Really interesting article on relationships on campus now that there are more women going to college than men. I agree with most of it except the victim part. Sometimes it is nice to kick back and not have to do anything. Notice I said sometimes.
On College Campuses, a Shortage of Men - NYTimes.com

"Thanks to simple laws of supply and demand, it is often the women who must assert themselves romantically or be left alone on Valentine’s Day, staring down a George Clooney movie over a half-empty pizza box. "

Thanks to this little fact here when you go to a BBW dance(doesn't matter the location) is the reason I stay out of the BBW community. It's impossible to find a guy on a dating site, at a dance, or anywhere else that the fat community congregates where he hasn't hooked up with or dated any number of the girls. Also the women are super aggressive and men don't want to act like men anymore. They don't want to be the pursuers which is actually in their nature. Women are over aggressive, guys get what they want all up front with no effort on their parts at all, and lose interest about as fast as they would watching a romantic comedy.

February 5th, 2010, 02:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
rwookiee Member Posts: 9 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts My Mood:	Why relationships and sex are better with big girls So, I was chatting with friends last weekend about this site and they were asking me about why I like bigger girls. Well, here is my breakdown and I'd like others to comment. I don't like big girls because of a fetish. I like big girls because they're soft in all the right places. BBWs are larger in all the right places and they're better lovers because they are rough when they want to be rough and they're also tender and soft when you want to be romantic. I love being able to hug someone with substance and to not feel like I'm going to break her when I really need a good squeeze. I love being able to put my arms around her waste and have it feel soft and warm. Its unfortunate to say this, but bbws are always better in relationships because most have had their hearts broken by shallow people and thus they're careful with your feelings and they're always generous with their hearts. BBWs are always nice to lean back against because they're soft and they snuggle well for the same reason. Also, it feels good to be naked with a bbw because they have a lot more soft skin to touch. Anyway, I could go on and on.

February 5th, 2010, 05:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
laurie479 ~RazzleDazzle~ Posts: 890 Blog Entries: 5 Thanks: 28 Thanked 62 Times in 34 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Originally Posted by rwookiee Its unfortunate to say this, but bbws are always better in relationships because most have had their hearts broken by shallow people and thus they're careful with your feelings and they're always generous with their hearts I like your post but find this section a bit disturbing. I think its definitly overgeneralizing and really just sounds like "they're lucky you like them, so they won't cause you any trouble". I don't know if that's how you intended it, but that's how it comes off. I have actually never had my heart broken by someone bc of my size...I could just be in "a mood" and overreacting My bad if I am, but I just hate that mantra.

February 5th, 2010, 06:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
sweetpinkpearl ~Pink~ Location: Groton Posts: 2,639 Thanks: 75 Thanked 78 Times in 46 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Originally Posted by laurie479 I like your post but find this section a bit disturbing. I think its definitly overgeneralizing and really just sounds like "they're lucky you like them, so they won't cause you any trouble". I don't know if that's how you intended it, but that's how it comes off. I have actually never had my heart broken by someone bc of my size...I could just be in "a mood" and overreacting My bad if I am, but I just hate that mantra. Laurie it kinda sounded that way to me too, but I do believe he was extolling all the great qualities of a bbw. If I ever get the feeling someone feels sorry for me cuz of my size, I have to turn my back...I am a strong, confident, independent woman and am very happy with who I am. Don't ever feel like you are doing me a favor by speaking to me or showing me attention...anyway, I rant LOL All in all, I don't think that was his intentions LOL

February 5th, 2010, 07:30 PM	#4 (permalink)
rwookiee Member Posts: 9 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls I completely did not mean it to come off that way. I've had a few friends (bigger girls) who have had some pretty crappy luck. I apologize for the over-generalization. :-( I have nothing but compliments.

February 5th, 2010, 08:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
markN I like fast women and beautiful cars! Location: South Windsor Posts: 887 Thanks: 1 Thanked 60 Times in 44 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap! I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze!

February 5th, 2010, 08:53 PM	#6 (permalink)
sweetpinkpearl ~Pink~ Location: Groton Posts: 2,639 Thanks: 75 Thanked 78 Times in 46 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Originally Posted by markN Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap! I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze! Not over analyzing LOL If you read my last sentence I did say I didn't think those were his intentions...just reading it quick, you start to say WTF...but taking it as a whole, I do believe he was sincere.

February 5th, 2010, 09:51 PM	#7 (permalink)
laurie479 ~RazzleDazzle~ Posts: 890 Blog Entries: 5 Thanks: 28 Thanked 62 Times in 34 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Originally Posted by markN Geez women, he says something nice and still gets crap! I thought his post was nice and sincere. Don't over analyze! Oh my Mark!! I think the post was great and I do believe I said I don't think it was his intention He seems like a sweetheart to me!!

February 5th, 2010, 10:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
rick ross Senior Member Location: New York Posts: 280 Thanks: 2 Thanked 47 Times in 28 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Really interesting article on relationships on campus now that there are more women going to college than men. I agree with most of it except the victim part. Sometimes it is nice to kick back and not have to do anything. Notice I said sometimes. On College Campuses, a Shortage of Men - NYTimes.com

February 6th, 2010, 02:48 AM	#9 (permalink)
peppa_labaja Senior Member Location: Bergen Cty. Posts: 369 Thanks: 82 Thanked 47 Times in 21 Posts My Mood:	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls No offense taken. I think your post is just lovely and holds a lot of truth. Being plus size we have all experienced some level of negativity. It does not have to be from a man, it could be anyone. I think that does make you more sensitive to a degree. Our life experiences softens us towards others and that's a good thing! I wish I could find someone who felt this way about me...

February 6th, 2010, 08:17 AM	#10 (permalink)
Curvaceous Flirt Empire State Of Mind Location: Mahopac Posts: 80 Thanks: 14 Thanked 23 Times in 14 Posts	Re: Why relationships and sex are better with big girls Originally Posted by rick ross Really interesting article on relationships on campus now that there are more women going to college than men. I agree with most of it except the victim part. Sometimes it is nice to kick back and not have to do anything. Notice I said sometimes. On College Campuses, a Shortage of Men - NYTimes.com "Thanks to simple laws of supply and demand, it is often the women who must assert themselves romantically or be left alone on Valentine’s Day, staring down a George Clooney movie over a half-empty pizza box. " Thanks to this little fact here when you go to a BBW dance(doesn't matter the location) is the reason I stay out of the BBW community. It's impossible to find a guy on a dating site, at a dance, or anywhere else that the fat community congregates where he hasn't hooked up with or dated any number of the girls. Also the women are super aggressive and men don't want to act like men anymore. They don't want to be the pursuers which is actually in their nature. Women are over aggressive, guys get what they want all up front with no effort on their parts at all, and lose interest about as fast as they would watching a romantic comedy.

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