xKingx

it hurts so much to wake up in love and go to bed heart broken. how can someone say they love u but throw away a relationship. i believe in fighting for love. some people believe that if u let it go if its meant to be then it will come back. maybe thats true but i wouldnt want it to happen that way. not if i love someone right now not if i do whatever i can to make that person happy. how can someone say ur great and still push u away.i guess some things arent meant to be understood and some things just arent meant to be. what does crying do. it doesnt change anything. u still end up feeling the same way. time goes by and maybe eases pain but love doesnt go away that feelin wont change. love should last forever shouldnt it

hotsteamymomma

Love is not horrible it is very special~~although love hurts sumtimes & we jusst don't like 2 feel the pain!! ~:0( love does last 4ever in ur heart~~ sometimes things just don't work out the way we feel they should & ! must just try 2 make the best of the situation~~mayb the pain doesn't always go away but it does get better in time!!I go by tgat saying whatevers meant 2 be will be~~in time you will know if it was meant/not~~good luck papi~~ur young u will find love again in time!!

angel74

I think it's wonderful to be in love....when you're in it. When the relationship is over...it sucks. All the time and energy put into lovin someone, and then they flake out on you or just stop trying or caring...that part hurts, and it's hard to want to do that again...but eventually you try again..hoping it will be better the next time

Catrinalu

Love is good for as long as the good feelings last. People need to work on making the good feelings last. Some don't work hard enough then love is gone. I was in a relationship for 28 years, now I'm alone because of the lack of working on love. Maybe someday I'll find it again..............

SHEWOLF74

whenever i am feelin REALLY crappy about LOVE..... and missing the people who i have loved ..... i remember to go back and read this:

One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart. Suddenly, an old woman appeared at the front of the crowd and said "Why, your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine."
The crowd and the young man looked at the old woman's heart. It was beating strongly, but it was full of scars. It had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing.
The people stared -- how can she say her heart is more beautiful, they thought?
The young man looked at the old woman's heart and saw its state and laughed.
"You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine. Mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old woman, "yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared."
"Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- you see, giving love, is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old woman, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old woman with trembling hands. The old woman took his offering, placed it in her heart and then took a piece from her old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.
The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old woman's heart flowed into his.
--- Author Unknown --

Cre8tive1

I'm sorry to hear you are going through a rough time. Love is a tricky thing... when you are in love there is nothing like it. You feel great, you have a bounce in your step and the world is in perfect balance. When you lose it, you mourn and you hurt.. especially if you are the one being rejected. Crying is a healthy coping mechanism for you to release your feelings and frustrations and its a good thing. I hate to cry personally, I always end up with a stuffy nose and a headache, but I have times when I need to release whats in my heart and mind physically and I always feel better inside.
There will be a day when you look back and you are able to see all that you learned from this relationship. You gained insight in yourself and wisdom that you didn't have before. The good thing is you can take that wisdom and apply it to your next relationship. I think it took me a long time for me to see the beauty from pain.. but it is there. The key is being able to train your mind to look for it.
I know you love this woman, and maybe things will work out and this is just a rough spot.. just have faith that in the end things will work out the way their intended to. As far as relationships go, you HAVE to work at it. There is no such thing as a fairytale happily ever after. Mutual compassion and compromise is a must in order to keep a relationship.