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Old October 7th, 2014, 05:28 PM   #1
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there's an Indian guy working at a phone shop near my house he's thin. And handsome as said by my mama who went there to look at phone deals today I am afraid of being rejected cus of my weight but i just want to take a chance to know him I have thing about guys from India but I feel I am not worth it to even try to go chat with this guy because I am shy and never went up to guy and chatted with him but I am tired of letting my weight get in the way of my life but this is a public phone store and what if he has a girl or to say he doesn't want to know me right in front of the store staff / customer's what should I do?
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Old October 7th, 2014, 08:43 PM   #2
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there's an Indian guy working at a phone shop near my house he's thin. And handsome as said by my mama who went there to look at phone deals today I am afraid of being rejected cus of my weight but i just want to take a chance to know him I have thing about guys from India but I feel I am not worth it to even try to go chat with this guy because I am shy and never went up to guy and chatted with him but I am tired of letting my weight get in the way of my life but this is a public phone store and what if he has a girl or to say he doesn't want to know me right in front of the store staff / customer's what should I do?
you can't be afraid, you have to take the chance, if you dont you will never know what could of been.
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Old October 7th, 2014, 09:54 PM   #3
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My grandmother had great advice she said...." How do you know unless you ask and the worse that could happen is they say no, it is NOT the end of the world"
In the end it is better to regret something you did then to regret something you didn't do.


Go in the store wait to see if he specifically can help you, then go to a section of the store where there aren't so many other people and tell him you find him very attractive and your sorry for being so bold especially at his work and not knowing if he is attached. That you hope since you live in the area that you could at the very least be friends.
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Old October 8th, 2014, 08:10 AM   #4
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you can't be afraid, you have to take the chance, if you dont you will never know what could of been.
thank you so much I think I'll take a chance
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My grandmother had great advice she said...." How do you know unless you ask and the worse that could happen is they say no, it is NOT the end of the world"
In the end it is better to regret something you did then to regret something you didn't do.


Go in the store wait to see if he specifically can help you, then go to a section of the store where there aren't so many other people and tell him you find him very attractive and your sorry for being so bold especially at his work and not knowing if he is attached. That you hope since you live in the. area that you could at the very least be friends.
. I will try that it's always good to have friends too I was

thinking of catching him when he got out of work just kind of ran into him by accident that a good idea?
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Old October 8th, 2014, 08:15 AM   #6
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My grandmother had great advice she said...." How do you know unless you ask and the worse that could happen is they say no, it is NOT the end of the world"
In the end it is better to regret something you did then to regret something you didn't do.


Go in the store wait to see if he specifically can help you, then go to a section of the store where there aren't so many other people and tell him you find him very attractive and your sorry for being so bold especially at his work and not knowing if he is attached. That you hope since you live in the area that you could at the very least be friends.
. yeah that's a good idea



I will try that doesn't hurt either I could use some friends around here thank you so much for your advice let you know how it goes wish me luck
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Here's a little motivation: Big Girls, You Are Beautiful.

Now go rock it w/confidence!
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dont be afraid to go after what you want. dress to impress and go into that store and get him alone. let him know what your thinking and see where it goes. now if he is not interested, then he was not worthy. any man should be interested in a big, beautiful, sexy woman like you. now if he is, than you go and have fun. either way, go after what you want
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Try it, you have nothing to lose. If you don't approach him, you maybe feel regret in the future.
Be brave! He'll notice you and have some good impressions. Size doesn't matter.
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Originally Posted by VeryShyIntrovertGal View Post
there's an Indian guy working at a phone shop near my house he's thin. And handsome as said by my mama who went there to look at phone deals today I am afraid of being rejected cus of my weight but i just want to take a chance to know him I have thing about guys from India but I feel I am not worth it to even try to go chat with this guy because I am shy and never went up to guy and chatted with him but I am tired of letting my weight get in the way of my life but this is a public phone store and what if he has a girl or to say he doesn't want to know me right in front of the store staff / customer's what should I do?
You are the only person in control of what you believe about yourself. .It's your mind, brain and thoughts that are holding you back..you believe you are not good enough, not skinny enough. .And until you change your perception of yourself nothing else will..It starts and ends with you..you can change anything about yourself ..but you must start with your
mind and stop the negative SELF TALK.
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